I am the pastor of a “small” church. I have often been reminded being a pastor of a large church is not easier, more fulfilling or more effective. I am not opposed to serving or being in a larger church but I currently am called to serve God here with the people God has provided. I enjoy the people and the place where God has placed me.
Over ten years ago we planted our church in a bedroom community – first there was housing boom and then there was housing bust and the church seemed to grow as fast as people would move away. God is still working through this church that has not yet grown as large as I expected but reaches out and connects with people in ways a larger church would not. I have a decade worth of amazing stories of how God has been at work in the lives of the people in our small church. River Rock Church is a place where people can serve and don’t have to sit on the sidelines as a spectator. We have raised up young musicians that are given an opportunity to play their instruments on Sunday mornings. We have helped equip people for ministry. Peoples lives have changed. People tell us they miss our church and are trying to find something like it in the new community where they have moved on to. I am willing to work with any number of people the Lord blesses our church with.
So often it seems like bigger is better but them I remember how easy it is to go down the street to our little hardware store and ask Jim for a specific bolt and he goes and finds the one I need. I have to drive 30 miles to Menards and if I can find someone to help they might be able to point me to the right section where I have to buy a package of bolts when I only needed one. That is an example of how smaller is better. I remember when my wife and I were in Bible college stage of life preparing to serve the Lord and we decided to leave the Wooddale Megachurch in Eden Prairie, MN where we were members and go down the road to the much smaller Cross of Glory Baptist Church in Hopkins, MN so we could have more opportunities to serve. God used the smaller church to help me more effectively prepare for the ministry He had planned for me. While there more than a dozen caring pastors at the big church I could make an appointment to see, the solo pastor, Pastor John Herring, at the smaller church mentored me sharing his life wisdom and experience with me.
Here is an article that explains the benefits of small churches:
Bigger Is Not Necessarily Better: 3 Reasons I’m Convinced God Most Often Builds His Church Small by Chris Surber
Bigger is not necessarily better. When I need to tighten a screw in my glasses, I need the right tool for the job—a tiny little screwdriver.
It’s the same with churches. God uses big churches for certain Kingdom jobs, and God uses little churches for specific assignments. Bigger churches can do things smaller cannot do. And little churches do things much larger churches can never do.
Statistically speaking, the vast majority of churches in America average less than 500 in weekly attendance. In fact, the best data suggests that approximately 35 percent of American churches average between 100-499, and at least 60 percent of churches in America have an average attendance between 1-99 people.
No more than 2.5 or 3 percent of American churches fall into the category of being a “megachurch.” Those that do are really phenomena of the modern cultural era. It would appear that God in His sovereignty finds small tools abundantly necessary for His work in the world.
Here are three reasons I am convinced God most often builds His church small:
1. Family Connection: While I’m not suggesting that this dynamic of the smaller church is not present in larger churches, I am asserting that it is uniquely present in smaller churches. This dynamic does bring challenges.
When I speak to the board of deacons about an unruly choir member, it may be his wife. Smaller local churches are usually comprised of two or three family groups that make up as much as half or two-thirds of the church membership. In smaller local churches when two young people from the youth of the church marry there is a very good chance that they will be united with a number of church members as in-laws.
The great advantage of this dynamic is that when smaller churches aim at evangelism, they have a ready-made mission field of people they know and love. If approached in healthy and simple ways, by inviting unsaved family members to fun but Christ centered outreach events, for example, the family dynamic allows for a kind of familiarity that is just plain difficult to cultivate in larger churches.
2. Friendship with the Pastor: For me, this is one of the most beautiful aspects of the local church. It’s funny to me that I have had more interaction with one of my former pastors, who happens to shepherd a megachurch I was formerly a member of, since becoming a pastor than I ever did when I was a member of his flock. This is really not to his discredit; he is a great pastor and fantastic leader.
The simple truth is that the megachurch high volume of people dynamic does not usually lend itself well to parishioners or visitors getting to know or in some cases even shaking the hand of the pastor. In the smaller churches the man teaching the sermon is accessible. A parishioner or visitor can get to know their pastor and in so doing gain a more robust understanding of the meaning and context of the perspective he brings to the proclamation of God’s Word.
Rather than becoming a cult of personality with their notoriety centered on their pulpit ministry, the effective local church pastor tends to become more like an extended member of the family. He and his family are common sights at family birthday parties and graduations.
Congregational pastor Washington Gladden said it this way a century and a half ago: “The pulpit is your throne, no doubt, but then a throne is stable as it rests on the affections of the people, and to get their affections you must visit them in their dwellings.” (Gladden, The Christian Pastor, Scribner 1911) The small church pastor is uniquely positioned to be a friend to the members of his parish.
3. Friendship with Others: While it is not always the case that small churches are more welcoming, it is simple logic that a space filled with fewer people is more likely to allow for a new person to become integrated into the faith community. Granted, this is an area of constant struggle in smaller churches. We must take care to avoid an “us vs. the world” mentality that tends to make many smaller churches a difficult to get into club, rather than an easy place to assimilate.
If cultivated effectively, the small church is positioned to be a place where “life on life” happens in a one-on-one lifestyle of intimate Christian discipleship. The pastor can know his people. The people can know their pastor. In healthy smaller churches who know who they are and accept their role as one of many smaller tools in the Master’s toolbox, the journey of following Jesus can be a deep sojourn walked out in unison with close friends who share a local community, a mutual history, very likely a family connection or two and the love of God together.
We don’t need huge crowds to have a church. We don’t need tremendous financial resources to effectively follow Jesus. We just need a few people who want to glorify God and fellowship together in Jesus name. “For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.” (Matthew 18:20 NIV84)
ChrisSurber.com Chris Surber is the Pastor of Cypress Chapel Christian Church in Suffolk, VA. He is also a religion columnist for the Suffolk News Herald.